So Christmas is Here ....

So after weeks and moth of planning the big day is almost here ....

It is at this time of year we hand of gifts and card to remind people we think of them and hold them in our hearts. 

I personally love Christmas it is the one time of year I have always loved and my spirit always lifts! 

it is a time for us to remember what is truly important to us .... 

I do not believe it is material goods or financial wealth..

I believe what is truly important is Family and friends and the love that you share with them that is what is important gifts however nice cannot give you the life long fullness of heart that being loved does. 

I know that many do not feel the same way due to troubled pasts 

the loss of family and friends as well as being alone and some are homeless. 

I think of these people often and try my best to share with as many of those that i know the love I feel at Christmas, 

To love someone with clarity of heart is something many cannot do but I have to believe that if someone is shown often enough that they are loved for the right reasons they will eventually feel and believe in that love and grow to trust in it. 

My children have been shown love since before they were born and like many other youngsters they 

do not believe they are loved when they are being guided down the right path 

by myself and hubby and often state "nobody loves me" when in fact there are many around that love them dearly. There are time we do not like our children or more namely their behavior, but we still love them dearly. 

I will be sharing my family Christmas with hubby's mum and dad as well as his uncle bringing family cheer into my home. 

I hope that many out there will be inviting those who would otherwise be alone to spend time with them or just visit them to share their love and hope this Christmas.

I am not immune to the pain of christmas either there are those that have left this world who I miss so very dearly it causes pain and those have chosen to be at odds with me over the Christmas period and are holding me responsible for their actions, this I all find hard but know I am unable to change and 

shall not let mar my own Christmas !

Merry Christmas, Seasons Greetings Blessed Yule what ever you may celebrate this time of year 

I wish you all the best from the heart 

xxxxx